Yet another year down! I can’t believe how quickly time flies (cliched, I know, but true). Last year, I started a tradition of writing my husband a wedding anniversary letter . What do you know, it turned out to be one of the most popular posts on my blog. Perhaps there are a lot of ladies out there who wish to pen down a meaningful message to their spouses/partners so they’re out searching for some much needed inspiration. Well, I’m not sure if they did actually find what they’re after because that post of mine wasn’t exactly champagne-and-roses given our circumstances then. Read my wedding anniversary letter to my husband in this post:
I’m still unsure if writing a wedding anniversary letter to hubs is sweet or cheesy. I know some people raise an eyebrow. But who worries about other people’s opinions, right? Writing such a message is meaningful, I think, and I see it as a way of penning down some highlights (or not-so-high lights) of our year together for the memory’s sake. This year, I wanted to give a special card instead of the same old (never hurts to do something different) – if you’re wondering, you really need this handmade wooden card! It’s really unique and definitely complements whatever gift you have planned.
Dear Husband,
Another year, another adventure. This year, I have been tremendously proud and constantly surprised. People warn not to expect your partner to change, or to attempt to change your partner. I am, however, proud to say that I got to witness that it is possible for someone to change for the better. The key was that you truly cared. You made what mattered to me, matter to you and you made it your mission to try.
Some people insist that they will not try to change for the better unless the other person does first (words I’m sure we have blurted at some point) but this year, you have really led by example by being the change and in the process, really garnering my respect for you.
This year, you have surprised me with how hands-on you have become with the kids. You get up before me on your days off and you’re up making breakfast for the kids and even making me mine in bed. You said maybe we should do something we used to enjoy when we were dating – cook together. And that is what you have been doing on your days off. We cook together and even do the dishes together while chatting and enjoying the music in the background. I so truly enjoy your company.
You’re often busy at work or busy renovating the house. When I tell you how much I appreciate your efforts, you tell me you’re just serving me the way I serve you and the family.
Thank you for daily loving me, cherishing me, appreciating what I do for the family… Thank you for daily accepting my flaws, forgiving my wrongs, accommodating my weaknesses and inspiring me to be better.
Thank you for making the conscious effort daily to be a better husband and better dad. I am impressed by your resolution, surprised by your persistence and so very proud of your journey. Our relationship is so much better because of you and you have inspired me to put in just as much dedication towards our marriage.
“Marriage provides the solace of worked-on friendship and the joy of being known profoundly.”
-Imogene Stubbs
That’s my heart poured out on a card for my husband. My honest thoughts that I might sometime not feel as comfortable saying or forget to.
Of course, such an occasion comes with the dilemma of finding a wedding anniversary gift…
I say dilemma because it’s always the case with me. We’ve been married a good few years now and I never know what to get him anymore! If you’re after some ideas, you’ll have to check these wedding anniversary gift ideas out! Depending on your budget, this couples watch will make an exquisite gift or this really meaningful wall plaque.
Some links are affiliate links.
Lovely, and glad it’s going along well – Happy anniversary
Thank you Lydia! xx
What a lovely insight into a happy partnership 🙂 Happy Anniversary!
Thanks Amy 🙂
What a lovely idea. I write a letter to my kids each year for their birthday but had not thought to do the same for my husband. I might just steal this idea. Happy anniversary!
Hi Vicki! Great idea to write a letter to your kids each year 🙂 I bought a journal to write to my kids but it’s a bit hard to keep up with :/ Maybe a letter a year is a better idea!
Beautiful, I’m sure your husband loved receiving such a thoughtful card.
Hi Danielle, I sure hope he did! haha 🙂
What a lovely idea Mandy! Happy anniversary to you both 🙂
Thank you Denise 🙂
Happy Anniversary!! You’re so sweet writing him a letter. xx
Thanks Jess! x
Happy anniversary. You sound like a great team together. 🙂
Thanks Bec. Working towards it 😉 x
How beautiful. Sometimes we forget the one we love the most (outside of our kids!) Perhaps this love letter writing is something we should all do once in a while xx
Hi Josefa! How true. We are often very engrossed with being mums that we sometimes do neglect our partners 🙂
Awww, what a lovely letter Mandy. Such an awesome way to express your love. This used to be natural to us once upon a time, but seems distant now. great thought !
Happy Anniversary to both of you !
Thanks Saumya! I actually only started writing last year 🙂 Never too late to start? 😉 xx
Awww…that’s so sweet! Good idea to write a letter each year. That way you can keep track of what’s important each year. You’d be amazed at the changes each year brings. 🙂 Happy anniversary to the two of you!
Hi Norlin! Yes I think it’s nice to keep track of the journey… every year brings different challenges and different triumphs! Thanks Norlin x
So lovely to read that, a great anniversary tradition for sure 🙂
Thanks Emma! x
Beautiful card! Happy Anniversary to you both! Time sure does fly doesn’t it. We had our 11 year anniversary earlier this year, has gone so fast, 5 kids later… #teamIBOT
Time definitely flies too fast Sophie:) My little one is going to preschool next year!
Awww this is such a beautiful, special card! Happy Anniversary!
Kate | themintedbeauty.com Xoxo
Thanks Kate! x
How lovely! It is strange the things people search for on google.
Hi Sarah, haha there are much stranger terms I have come across for my google search history, trust me! 😉
Happy anniversary to both of you! Such a thoughtful message, I think it’s important to realise to be thankful in life and appreciate what you do for one another. You guys are going to be living a happy life together! 😉
X Alice
Thank you gorgeous girl xx
Such a nice note to your Hubby. My card to my poor hubby is usually two lines. I really need to be a better wife like you:)